Dating a silver fox
If youre younger, your youthful exuberance is part of your charm.
I would advise stopping short of taking your new paramour to a sweaty techno club to teach them how to fist pump or a knitting class. Be Prepared for Public Scrutiny Although dating outside your age range is becoming more common, people still feel quite free to interject their opinion and commentary where its not wanted.
Whether youre a young thing considering an age upgrade or a sophisticated single looking to tap into the Fountain of Youth, the rules of engagement are still basically the same: Hunt Where They Gather Many May-December romances start out like any other, with people meeting socially through friends or going about their daily lives.
However, if youre specifically looking to meet someone of a certain age, there are some rather easy solutions.
Great neutral zones for people of all ages: the gym, bookstores, dog runs, the grocery store (outer periphery is best), and, believe it or not, Apple stores.
Act Your Age Part of what attracts you to this person is your personality, so if youre older, dont start dressing younger and using slang thats uncomfortable or unfamiliar.
Guys looking to meet attractive older women can usually find them at the hottest brunch spot in town or at wine bars with their girlfriends.
Ladies looking to catch a silver fox can usually locate them in the best steakhouse in town or high-quality pubs during a sporting match.
Like maybe he needs a little lesson in technique, perhaps?
Explore what they have to offer: writers, music, life experiences, hobbies, etc.
Found a hot man who’s been around a little longer than you have?
If youre the older party, realize that youre dating someone who does everything from their smartphone, including getting aroused.
Try to meet in the middle: use sexting as foreplay, coordinate dinner over email, but when it comes to serious or heartfelt matters, face-to-face is better.