They’re certain to question whether your lover is getting special treatment at work.
At a minimum that would be hugely awkward for both of you.Better to flirt professionally, or date a colleague, and avoid putting your reputations or careers at risk. Dating a woman who is strong and direct is a major eye opener. If she doesn’t want to do something or doesn’t like her dinner, she’s going to tell you. She just knows that it’s better to just say what she means instead of hinting at it and hoping you get it. Don’t even try making lame excuses when you’re late to meet her. If you get into a fight with her, she’s not going to back down if she knows she’s right. They might fear the career consequences of rejecting you.Conversely they could exploit you merely to advance their own interests.