Guide to internet dating tips
A vague or half-finished profile – left that way out of shyness – can be misconstrued as suspicious.If you’re unsure what to say about yourself, there’s no shame in asking a friend or family member to help you write it. Or your all-time favourite photo that was taken a good 10 years ago? If you don’t have a decent bank of recent-ish photos, it might be worth investing in a shoot with a professional like Saskia Nelson, who specialises in dating photos.
Anna Harrison is an international education specialist by day and a travel consultant by night.
Whether you’ve been on umpteen dates with people you’ve met online, or are still preparing for your first, we can all do with a little bit of advice when it comes to dating in the technified world.
We’ve previously gathered dating tips for women (written by a man) and vice versa, but here are some general tips for navigating the online dating maze.
Be as kind and considerate as possible, but you do not owe anyone anything. Take the time to see if you click and have a connection worth pursuing in person. When I pay attention to my intuition and actually follow it, it rarely fails me. I made a lot of mistakes online dating when I started and definitely learned the hard way.
Being a sweet gal, I used to spend hours responding to emails from men by saying, “No thank you” and kindly explaining the reasons I did not feel we were a match. You want to ask questions, listen (red flags), see how you feel in the conversation and make sure the person on the other end of the phone is not certifiably insane. If you plan an extravagant evening with someone you have never met, you will regret it if he/she looks nothing like his/her photos, you have zero chemistry and the conversation is empty.